On the road again…

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Hard to believe, but we are approaching the end of our adventure here in Utah. I can tell you that it won our hearts over, but more on that in a later post. This post is much more functional, as we start to pack up our belongings. Having a two year-old and a nine month-old, preparing for 36 hour drive across the country, organization is crucial. Here I am going to share my packing plans, as well as items to keep two young babes entertained and comfortable for the long days ahead.

First and foremost, it is time to pack. Sometimes it is the bane of my existence, but I am in organization mode, so I started off collecting all the clothes that we will not wear on our way to the east coast. We are making a pit-stop in Florida to visit the abuelos, so I plan to pack one bag for the family for the 3 days of hotels and traveling, as well as a separate bag for Florida. Putting aside a handful of outfits for the remainder of our days here, I started packing the majority of our clothes.

Something I do at home, and really found beneficial when packing, is the KonMari method of folding clothes. I was able to fold and pack a gigantic pile of clothes into our suitcase, then at the end I included accessories that we will not need for this last week.

By the way, the pile of clothes on the bed actually doubled in size before I was able to start folding and packing clothes! Fortunately, we are driving and do not have to worry about luggage weight because this suitcase is heavy! There are three layers of folded clothes in the big section and little accessories, belts, and socks in the thin section. Today, I also packed our paper items {kids’ scrapbooks, art supplies, tax paperwork, etc.} and some of their toys into the big bin and into the grey toy bin pictured above. More toys can be fit into the grey bin, but that can wait until early next week.

Here are the other items groups of items to pack:

  • Electronics: husband’s work computer, PS4, our family computer, cables, FireStick, etc.
  • Food items: canned goods, spices, other pantry items {I resigned myself to not cooking for the next three days, other than what we have in the refrigerator already – yay!} Baby snacks are already in a reusable grocery bag, but this needs to go in the car with us!
  • Frozen/Refrigerated items {this will wait until Tuesday night after we fill our large cooler with ice}: mostly just venison and condiments this trip!
  • Ski gear: hubby and I hope to get one more ski day in on Tuesday before we leave — fingers crossed!
  • Cribs: we will disassemble the day before we leave; Bird gets to sleep in a bunk bed for a night and Lulu will sleep in our pack and play, since we need that for the hotels anyway.
  • Miscellaneous: books, the last bit of toys, dog food and water bowls, the last bit of clothes we are wearing for the next several days.

I already started to pack what I could of the above items. Now it is time to prepare the kids’ activities for the car.

Pictured here are some of the toddler’s favorites on the ride to Utah. My favorite activity book is the scratch and sketch ‘Furry Friends’, as Bird will sometimes chew on the writing implement you give her, especially if she is frustrated with still being in the car. Having her chew on a wood stylus is highly preferable to the magic ink pen in this case {it, thankfully, has not splintered or shown any signs of doing so, otherwise that would change things considerably}. We also always have a plethora of books on hand. I am hiding a few of Bird’s favorite books, so that they seem new again when we get in the car next week.

In addition to the above activities, our friends also gave Bird some shape and color flashcards, which she really enjoys — this will make the perfect quiet activity for the car. We made whole punches in the top corner of the card and connected it with a metal ring, creating a little booklet of sorts, which I think she will really like! Also, other friends gave her a mini etch-a-sketch, which she loves! This is also packed into her unicorn backpack for the ride. For our 9 month old, who is such a chill baby {thank you, universe!} I packed a musical toucan toy, some books {that are chew proof} and teething toys. Of course, add to all of this many, many snacks and we should be good!

Our travel days are going to be about 9-10 hour driving days {meaning that does not account for stops}, so we try to leave early, after breakfast for parents, kids, and dogs. We stop once midday, which is usually the longest so Bird can run around {she likes to help Papa walk the dogs}, and I can feed Lulu. Then we all have lunch together, Bird walks the dogs with Papa again, we change what diapers need to be changed, and get back in the car. Late afternoon, we make a quick pit-stop for diaper changes, dog walk, and Lulu’s bottle, then finish off the drive with dinner once we get to the hotel. It’s quite the experience, but we were very fortunate on the ride from Maryland to Utah; the kids were absolute champs and were pretty low maintenance! We are very, very grateful and keeping our fingers crossed that this Utah to Florida trip is no different.

Preparation mode continues on my end: any suggestions on activities for 2 year old and 9 month old children in the car? Any snack suggestions?

Also, would you consider or have you completed a long road trip with the family? Where did you go and how did it go? Look forward to hearing from you all!

Bibliophile Book Review: January and February

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I love to read. My favorite sweatshirt says “Bibliophile” and that is, seriously, no joke. I am the type of reader who takes hours in the bookstore {well, I used to before babies} trying to find the perfect read. I am the type of reader who loves to smell the books — yes, I am that person and I do not apologize! I am the type of reader who loves becoming absorbed into a plot and finding books I connect with, whether I adore or dislike them.

I try to read often, although some days I only get a few minutes during the kids’ naptime and maybe at the end of the night. Sometimes I get stuck on a book, especially parenting ones, where I feel too exhausted from actually parenting to read about it more, but I am also the type of reader who has to finish a book once started. Every year I make a goal for the number of books I will read and this year my goal is 25 books. I am hoping that by writing book reviews, I will continue this self care plan of reading regularly! You can read my individual reviews of these books on my Goodreads — you can find the link to in the sidebar — but I wanted to give an overview of the six books I read so far this year.

In January and February, I read the following books:

  • Farm from Home by Amanda Brooks {4 stars}
  • Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman {4 stars{
  • The Wildling Sisters by Eve Chase {3 stars}
  • The Immortalists by Chloe Benjamin {4 stars}
  • The Lying Game by Ruth Ware {3 stars}
  • The Bookshop on the Corner by Jenny Colgan {4 stars}

Only one nonfiction this go-around, and I really loved it; Christmas gift {thank you, Mom!} and the perfect way to start the year. A life dream of mine is to pick up and move somewhere new, where life has a better work/life balance, and there is a new adventure. Since I am getting a taste of that with this trip to Utah, this book was very apropos! I also love the beautiful photography and the recipes included with the writing, so this book is one of my favorites so far this year!

The next three books on the list were all a bit on the darker side, but excellent stories about family, relationships, and all included some mystery, which usually keeps me heavily entertained. Excellent reads! I think my least favorite of the group is The Lying Game by Ruth Ware, only because I loved In a Dark, Dark Wood and this was not as compelling. That being said, it was still a great book and kept me intrigued throughout.

Last, and certainly not least, is The Bookshop on the Corner by Jenny Colgan, which was my favorite of the six. The writing style was such an ease to read; I felt as though I was conversing with an old friend. Plus, the plot was idyllic! Overall, a terrific selection of books; I find that I give three stars to many book selections and in the past couple months, four different novels earned four stars. What an amazing start to this year’s reading goal! Keep tuned in for more reviews — I am hoping to do an overview of my books each month from here on out, so come back next month for more!

Want to know what is in the pipeline?

This month, I switched gears from fiction to a parenting book called The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel. I was struggling to stay connected with the book these past weeks, but I think that is due to toddler tantrums wearing me down. All the more reason to read the book, am I right? So far, I really appreciate the information and the science behind how children’s brains work, as it reminds me of the information I learned in college and beyond, as my background is in education, specifically elementary education and school counseling. I think I am finally ready to commit to reading this with my full attention. The other three books in this picture are books I borrowed from my bestie — thanks Chris! — and I look forward to hopping into these for a reprieve from more serious material once I am finished.

What are you reading lately? What are your favorite reads? All suggestions welcome!

Travel Destination: Moab

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Well, I am late in posting this, but it’s been a week: between a sick baby, both babes going through a mama phase, and getting ready for friends and family to visit, there’s been a bit of chaos! However, I am extremely excited about this post and wanted to take my time to do it justice.

We had an amazing long weekend in Moab! Hubby, babies, and I traveled three hours to Moab, Utah, and goodness, it did not disappoint. Saturday morning, the hubby picked the activity: a 9.4 mile long, 4×4 trail, called Fins and Things. On this trail, we saw a lot of Jeeps, many UTVs, and we decided not to rent a vehicle, but to instead take our Toyota 4runner. Oh my…

Let me begin by saying that I tend to get motion sick — even riding a fast, only several minute long roller coaster {with no flips} can give me a headache and feeling of nausea for the rest of the day. If you are in the same boat, maybe this is not the trail for you. Check out the following clip – it shows one of the many times we lost sight of the trail – terrifying and gorgeous!

The trip took us about 3 hours {with a half an hour stop to feed Lulu and let Bird run around} and although I felt slightly nauseated, the views were absolutely stunning. Also, I am thoroughly impressed with our Toyota 4runner; we kept a slow pace and definitely took our time on the jagged and steep areas, but we were able to complete the trail with the whole truck intact, albeit very muddy!

  • Snow dusted red rock
  • ^ Line of Jeeps ^
  • Look at this view! Stunning!

We then spent the afternoon in quaint downtown Moab with the dogs; our AirBnB was only several blocks away from the center of town – Bird started in the hiking backpack, but decided she wanted to walk back to the apartment on her own two feet. She recently started playing her version of the “red light, green light” game. She says “Freeze,” “Slow,” “Fast!” However, let me say there are a lot of “freeze” commands that make walking home a tad tedious, but adorable!

On Sunday, we drove to Arches National Park, which was only ten minutes away. Our goal was to hike the Delicate Arch, which starts at the Wolfe Ranch Parking Lot {for the 5k trail}. The drive to the parking lot was breathtaking, with many other stone formations that seemed just as iconic as the Delicate Arch. I really enjoyed the formation pictured above; it looked to me that it was greeting us on our arrival into the park. Absolutely remarkable!

We then started our hike up, up, and away the trail. Reviews of the trail are not joking when they say it climbs steadily upward! My hubby carried Bird in the hiking backpack and I carried Lulu in the Ergobaby; we started walking during his morning nap, but he was quite inquisitive at the beginning of the hike, as you can see from the picture above. He did eventually fall asleep and slept through the ascent, waking up exactly when we reached the Delicate Arch.

  • ^ That is our family!

The end of the hike seemed the most treacherous, as you climb along this narrow path up and around the formation, but truthfully, even though I have a slight fear of heights, this was feasible even with two small children. At the end of this path, you turn the corner and there is the Delicate Arch! We used the app AllTrails for this hike (and for our off-roading experience) and hubby and I were very pleased. Easy to use, tracks well, even in locations where cell service is not readily available, and provides the statistics at the end. If you’re looking for an app for your future hikes or off-road adventures, I recommend AllTrails.

I am extremely happy we hiked this trail in the winter. There were others on the trail, but definitely no massive crowds. The sun is warm even on a thirty degree day and I cannot imagine the heat in the summer. Lastly, we were able to take pictures relatively quickly, so we could hike back down before the kids’ lunchtime. Reviews I read advised that this hike can take 2-3 hours, as it is a moderate trail, there is no respite from the sun, and if there are crowds, I can only imagine trying to clamber up some of the rocks with others on your tail. It took us a little under two hours, hiking time, not including our time taking pictures under the arch and along the trail, as well as letting Bird out as we neared the parking lot, so she could get her fill of walking and rocks!

Honestly, I think Bird’s biggest take-away from this trip to Moab is that it re-affirmed her love of dirt and rocks! Hubby and I already decided we will come back to Moab to experience more hikes, beautiful scenery, and maybe, one day, another off-road excursion! On the way out of Moab, we stopped at Moab Giants for its outdoor Dinosaur Trail {there are other parts to this attraction that are indoor, but we had a long drive ahead of us and it was almost nap time for the babes}, where Bird wandered around, staring wide-eyed at the full sized dinosaur replicas. It was quite impressive and when we come back to Moab, we will definitely stop here to experience more of their attractions!

Can you tell that we are fans of Moab and all that it has to offer?! If this isn’t on your travel list, and you’re a fan of outdoor activities, whether you have children or not, this area has plenty to keep you entertained. We highly recommend it and it is an awesome place for children to explore nature.

What are some places that you traveled to that you recommend? What did you experience? Look forward to hearing from you as always!

Food for the Soul

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Let me start off by saying “Happy Valentine’s Day!” I decided to talk about something I truly love… food! All jokes aside, food can transport you into a new, or familiar, culture and can bring people together. Food makes me think of gatherings with family and friends, traveling, and exploration of all that is new.

Another, more important, love in my life is my hubby. He and I share responsibility in the kitchen, but absolutely have different methods of cooking. I love to try new recipes, but when I try something new, I stick to the recipe. Hubby, on the other hand, might glance at the recipe, but will cook his own take on that recipe. He is amazing at this and I am secretly {okay, now not so secretly} jealous of this talent. My favorite things that he makes are stir-fry and tacos – yum!

This is a picture of the last tacos hubby made: fish tacos! We tend to use lettuce a lot more than actual tortillas; a few years back we did The Whole 30 for the first time and loved using romaine or endive as the tortilla. Such a simple twist on a classic, simple meal and it is absolutely brilliant. This fish taco includes red cabbage, avocado, tomatoes, and spice – lots of heat if my hubby is cooking – these tacos were super fresh and delicious.`

Deer Valley – Park City, Utah

The hubby and I recently had some date days to go skiing – yay to finding a babysitter in Utah! On our second ski date, we went to Deer Valley, which was stunning. We took a full day and skied all over the mountain; I am a novice and ski only greens and single blues, and it was nice having so many trails available for my level across the mountain.

Afterwards, we returned to Sandy and found a Thai food restaurant right around the corner from where we are staying {hidden gem!}, called Thai Mango. The food was absolutely delicious and was reminiscent of our trip to Bali. Brief side note: hubby and I traveled to Singapore, Bali, and Australia when we got engaged – we call it our honeymoon – and it was one of the most amazing experiences. We even took a cooking class in Bali and learned how to make the infamous peanut sauce that you have with something like chicken satay; that was the appetizer we ordered and was what made us think about that amazing trip. Don’t worry, I’ll post about that trip at another time!

Here’s a picture of my Pad Thai and jasmine tea. I usually refrain from caffeine because it completely messes with my body and herbal tea is one of my favorite beverages. This jasmine tea was so delicious that I am going to try and track it down and keep it in my tea collection! Overall, this restaurant pick is what hubby and I do when we are eating out; we bring our sense of adventure and do some research. We like to search out the “hidden gems” in the area and, when abroad, try to eat like the locals. Thai Mango was a delicious and I would highly recommend if anyone is in the Salt Lake City area!

Now, tell me: what are your favorite places you visited and what restaurant/food did you try that made you do your happy dance?

Duality of Parenthood

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To all you mamas out there… congratulations! You’re doing terrific! Why do I say this? Simply because I know you are even if I do not know you – first, you’re reading this in the little spare time you have – and because oftentimes we, as mothers (parents), internalize guilt and overthink the choices we make in our children’s lives. This week the duality of motherhood has been in the forefront of my mind.

I am a stay-at-home mama to two children under the age of two. I love having the kids so close in age; however, currently having a 22 month and a 7.5 month old, we are getting into a tricky phase. The baby — we call him Lulucito — needs more attention now that he’s somewhat mobile — I think he will figure out crawling quicker than I expect, but he cannot yet move to keep up and interact fully with his sister. The toddler, we call her Bird, is now realizing that Lulucito needs more attention and that this requires sharing — something that is a work in progress.

If you’re like me, I am always on the lookout to learn something new and being a parent is no exception. I continuously read magazines, articles, and books on parenting, as my husband and I try to figure out what style we like best for our children. I recently found the following quote on social media posted by Raised Good (blog and website), which is a page that really mirrors how I would like to parent.

This quote especially resonates with me, because Bird’s personality is really presenting itself lately – she’s daring, extremely active, and supremely independent. She wants to explore, experience, and devour all that she sees! I absolutely adore this about her and I love that I get a front row seat to watch her enthusiasm for life unfold as she grows.
I let my kids explore life, nature, food, etc. because I think it is vitally important to their growth, physically, mentally, and emotionally. However, sometimes we need to run errands, leave the grocery store, or share with others — here is where the duality comes into play.

I struggle some days to make decisions: do my children have too much freedom or am I holding them back from their potential? Am I scheduling too many activities into their days or should I get them more involved? Am I coddling my children or pushing them to grow too quickly? These, and more, are the daily thoughts I have and I am working to find what comes naturally.

My overall goal is to be a calm parent: to listen to my children and their needs, not worry about the unwashed dishes and clothes, and focus on their growth and development. My goal for this week is much more humble: I want to remind myself that I am human and I encourage you all to do the same. Impatience and voice raising can sometimes win over, so my goal is to continue my self care routine with meditation and yoga. These practices help me to breathe in times where I feel overwhelmed and frustrated; this breath sometimes gives me the time I need to access the situation logically and to be proactive, rather than reactive in situations.

These are my goals for this week, what are yours? I am always searching for additional resources … please share anything that works for you and your family! Look forward to hearing from you!

Light Behind the Dark Days

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There are darknesses in life and there are lights, and you are one of those lights, the light of all lights.

– Bram Stoker

This quote was on my mind quite often this week. Unfortunately, we had some losses in our lives this week, one a friend and neighbor who was killed on deployment, way too soon in her young life. Although these individuals are physically gone, their spirits live on in our memories and actions. I continue to think about the light they brought into this world, with their kindness, creativity, and their laughter. This light is what helps me cope: I know that by sharing light with others I can truly honor the individuals we lost. I feel inspired by my neighbor and all she did in her life – she was constantly creating, working hard, yet having fun with her family and friends, and always reaching for more. I feel more motivated than ever to accomplish some goals I have held on to for years.

This week, however, is about coping. I took time to meditate, to explore my thoughts and feelings, really taking stock of where I am at this moment in my life. I find that being in Utah, away from home, allows me the benefit of focusing on the simplicity of life and on what I hold most important. Not sure why, but at home, I feel like I am constantly busy, not taking the time to breathe and meditate on the truly important things: family, friends, love, and happiness. Since I do not have all the distractions here that home brings, I am focusing on self care, my husband, and my children, and taking the time to notice the simple things that make me happy. My intention is to bring this self-awareness home with me, help us to simplify life when back on the east coast, and enjoy the moments that make life so beautiful.

This week’s happiness and cathartic activities included making Valentine’s Day cards with the kids; yes, I know it’s a commercialized holiday, but one thing that especially hit home this week is that it is always a good time to share your love for others.

‘Life Journals’

In addition, I made time to update the kids’ scrapbooks. In fact, they are more like ‘life journals’, with pictures, stickers, and many memories {first steps, words, as well as trips taken and people visited}! I am very fortunate; my mom loves to take pictures and I have many albums loaded with pictures from my childhood. I decided to combine my love of writing with my obsession of taking pictures of the babies to create these journals.

I also found it absolutely necessary to go to the two yoga classes I signed up for this week. Yoga really helps me to center myself, as well as allowing me to delve into my thoughts, feelings, and acknowledging how that affects my demeanor and physicality. If you’re ever near Draper, Utah, please check out Cradle Your Soul! It’s a smaller studio, which I love, and has different classes for individuals of all levels. I especially appreciate the more intimate setting; I practiced for about 10 years, but am significantly out of practice. The smaller class sizes allow me to focus on where I am physically and emotionally. I am passionate about yoga because I love that it is all about the individual; it’s not a competition between you and someone else, only you against yourself.

The days have been difficult knowing that these individuals in our lives are gone, but I am committed to focusing on the light. Remembering the amazing qualities of these individuals inspires me to be more true to myself, which is my intention for the foreseeable future. Stay safe and see you next week!

Starting anew…

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Generally in the new year I get the same itch: to start writing, to read more, to eat healthier, to be more physically fit; basically, to improve myself on all levels. As a new mama, with two children under two, I find myself focusing a lot on the babes, and I wouldn’t want it any other way. However, I also know that to be the best mama I can be, I need to work on my self-care. I often find that when several days go by where I practice little-to-no self-care, I get crankier and less patient, which is unfair to my babies, my husband, and myself.

I think I’ve started the year off right so far – only five days in and in addition to re-vamping this blog, I already finished a book since the new year, which makes me happy – check out my Goodreads updates on the right hand side to see what I am reading, along with my reviews! Also, I tried some new recipes, and signed up for some yoga classes. It’s a start!

I should also tell you that my family and I are on somewhat of a grand adventure: we decided to spend the winter away from our east coast home. In fact, we are staying in Utah for three months! Currently, we are about three weeks into our adventure and are loving the fresh air, the snow, and especially the majestic mountains.

This is the view from the local park we frequent with the kids and the dogs. It seems not to matter where we are, even someplace as simplistic as the grocery store has amazing views of these mountains!

My husband is an avid skier and has been skiing already a handful of times, and the really exciting part is that he has taken our daughter, who is not even two yet, up to the mountain. Our daughter, E, is absolutely fearless and loves this time with her papa; her favorite thing to tell him when he stops at the bottom of the hill is, “Go!” It is remarkable seeing her thirst for new experiences and her willingness to try new things.

I really enjoy cooking and especially since the kids were born, do so on a regular basis. We started the new year off right with some venison tacos!
To brag on my hubby a bit more, besides being an avid skier, he also enjoys to hunt deer and goose during their seasons back home. Before we left, he was able to get two deer, which now leaves us with a freezer full of venison. Naturally, since we drove out here, we decided to fill a cooler full of our venison and bring it with us to Utah.

This morning, we took the kids to the mountain and gave the baby his first smell of the mountain air, while the hubby took E on a few ski runs on the bunny slopes. Then the kids and I returned home while he continued to ski. For me, it was the perfect afternoon to whip up some venison stew!

It was a hearty choice and the venison was the most tender I’ve cooked yet; not sure if you’re familiar with venison, but it can dry out very easily and quickly. This was a new recipe I tried, but it will certainly go into the keeper pile! Stay tuned for a page dedicated to new recipes like this one; it’s one of my goals for the next several weeks.

Now that I feel caught up with everyone, and full from venison stew, I think I will go get some shut-eye. Tomorrow is another day and another adventure awaits!

Simplicity

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simple breakfast

Life truly is all about the simple things. This weekend marked a brilliant snow storm, which closed down the local area. Therefore, there was little to do but enjoy Mother Nature’s attempt to slow us down and appreciate life! I started off my Saturday with one of my favorite breakfast meals, consisting of really simple ingredients:

  • Bread (or in this case, English Muffin)
  • Avocado
  • Medium-boiled egg
  • Olive oil
  • Lemon juice
  • Chia seeds

This meal is filling and utterly delicious, plus it includes protein, fiber, fatty-acids with all these ingredients! The eggs are also from one of our local favorites, Enticement Farms, and I love how fresh local eggs taste!

Do you remember, when you are young, how you dream about a time where you are older and surrounded by great friends? Well, that is our reality! We have amazing neighbors who are kind, thoughtful, generous, and hilarious. How amazing to have neighbors who are also friends. We celebrated the snow day, and the fact that we did not have to go anywhere, by spending the afternoon together. First, we went to lunch at our local bar, which we can walk to, followed by sledding and snowboarding down a neighbor’s long driveway. This is why I say that age is just a number! You are as young as you live!

My final thought of this blog is, no matter where you live, or how young you are, take a minute to sit back and enjoy the simple pleasures that nature provides daily. I know I will!